| bestestes |
Dec 18 2010, 12:31 AM
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We're in Mcallen, TX, one of our stops while traveling for a year in a bus with our 7 children. We do a lot of boondocking, and stay in a park about once every 7-10 days for a night or two.
In Mcallen, we made 4 calls to find a park before finding one that would 'let' us stay. Each of the 4 parks chuckled a little bit when I answered 'seven' to their questions of how many children? ... right before they said 'No'. It hasn't hit us as hard as in this community, where there are apparently loads of 55+ RVers... It is weird to be classed out of a business, that if it was the other way around, would probably make the news: "Local RV Park discriminates against kind senior couple". I understand wanting to create an atmosphere of quiet restful etc- but ?? |
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| Lindsay Richards |
May 24 2011, 01:13 PM
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There are all kinds of people in the world. Businesses have to chose their markets. If they chose wrong, it hurts their bottom line and if they chose right, it helps. Business people have to deal with the world as it is, not how they or you wish it to be. If it makes since for them to be an over 55 park, then they are smart to do it and to enforce it. If people choose to break the rules they should not be allowed to do so. If a senior (like me) chooses to go to a regular park, then they shouldn't get upset when children do what they do unless it is breaking the normal park rules. We can not force our values on everybody else. Camping is supposed to be fun and we are not supposed to trample on others rights. It is just good common sense. You would be wise not to attempt to stay at any over 55 park and to make sure your kids, dog or for that matter yourself don't bother anybody else. We all pretty much do this and violations of common sense are magnified by the close quarters of a campground.
-------------------- Lindsay Richards
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| MCRANE |
May 24 2011, 02:57 PM
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There are all kinds of people in the world. Businesses have to chose their markets. If they chose wrong, it hurts their bottom line and if they chose right, it helps. Business people have to deal with the world as it is, not how they or you wish it to be. If it makes since for them to be an over 55 park, then they are smart to do it and to enforce it. If people choose to break the rules they should not be allowed to do so. If a senior (like me) chooses to go to a regular park, then they shouldn't get upset when children do what they do unless it is breaking the normal park rules. We can not force our values on everybody else. Camping is supposed to be fun and we are not supposed to trample on others rights. It is just good common sense. You would be wise not to attempt to stay at any over 55 park and to make sure your kids, dog or for that matter yourself don't bother anybody else. We all pretty much do this and violations of common sense are magnified by the close quarters of a campground. I have no problem with respecting others rights to have a 55 and older park. Although I do have a problem with people who act like a campground is a 55 and older park when they are not. The place I am now is that way. Even though the owners have stated several times that the park is family friendly a group of seniors who stay here refuse to believe it. Those who have an attitude that families are not as good as they are, I have problems with. Before I goto any campground I ask if they are family friendly. If they hesitate at all in their response I will not go there. From a customere stand that is all I can do. As far as feeling sorry for someone because once a kid was a doing something that upset them, I have put up with a lot of adults who were not respectful. That is just part of being around different people. |
| Denali |
May 25 2011, 09:51 PM
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I have no problem with respecting others rights to have a 55 and older park. Although I do have a problem with people who act like a campground is a 55 and older park when they are not. The place I am now is that way. Even though the owners have stated several times that the park is family friendly a group of seniors who stay here refuse to believe it. Those who have an attitude that families are not as good as they are, I have problems with. Before I goto any campground I ask if they are family friendly. If they hesitate at all in their response I will not go there. From a customere stand that is all I can do... As people get older they become less tolerant, more fearful of their surroundings (that's why so many old folks have firearms in their RVs), and more sure that the world is going to hell in a hand basket. I'm sorry that your family has had to be the butt of these old croaks. Your kids are very lucky to have this experience on the road. Don't let us old farts get you down! -------------------- Dave Rudisill
Fulltimer since 2002 2004 Beaver Monterey |
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RFCN2 You make a very good point. In the past it seemed... Dec 18 2010, 11:51 PM
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Galli
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dbnck I disagree that it's a numbers issue. Over-55... Dec 22 2010, 01:07 PM
MCRANE My family and I locked up our house two years ago ... May 24 2011, 12:40 PM
Lindsay Richards We live in Florida and a goodly percentage of the ... May 25 2011, 10:00 PM
katsuey We stopped at a couple of campgrounds on our May 2... Jun 1 2011, 08:58 PM
Denali ...The KOA RV campground in Sioux City had a group... Jun 4 2011, 04:13 PM
jamarynn1 We just stayed in a 55-and-over park (and we are w... Jun 8 2011, 12:40 AM
Lindsay Richards
They're not all like that, are they?
Proba... Jun 8 2011, 08:41 AM
MCRANE We are camp hosting in a state park for the next 4... Jun 10 2011, 08:13 AM
MCRANE Sure I see a lot of uneducated parents with RVs in... Jun 14 2011, 10:29 PM
Lindsay Richards Looks like some of you under 55's can be prett... Jun 15 2011, 03:08 PM
MCRANE I was laughing the whole time I wrote that. It jus... Jun 15 2011, 05:45 PM
kcmoedoe
I was laughing the whole time I wrote that. It ju... Jun 15 2011, 07:35 PM
Galli
I was laughing the whole time I wrote that. It ju... Jun 15 2011, 07:50 PM
MCRANE
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I don’t mind having children around but there w... Jun 15 2011, 08:42 PM
MCRANE I got it going now.lol. I understant everything yo... Jun 15 2011, 08:24 PM
Lindsay Richards That was you who ran me off? Jun 15 2011, 08:49 PM
MCRANE
That was you who ran me off?
Sory about that....... Jun 15 2011, 08:59 PM
Cape Codger Personally, I have no qualms of children in a 55+ ... Jun 16 2011, 07:53 PM
Lindsay Richards In Florida where we live many, many of the parks a... Jun 16 2011, 08:00 PM
MCRANE The funny thing about the 55+ parks in Florida tha... Jun 16 2011, 08:55 PM
Galli
The funny thing about the 55+ parks in Florida th... Jun 16 2011, 10:13 PM
MCRANE :o WOW,,,,and see a dumb southerner like me didn... Jun 16 2011, 10:33 PM
MCRANE Ok let me ask a question and please feel free for ... Jun 16 2011, 10:46 PM
Galli
Ok let me ask a question and please feel free for... Jun 17 2011, 10:40 PM
Cape Codger First let me say that in forty plus years of campi... Jun 17 2011, 08:24 AM
MCRANE
As I try to remind others at some of these 55... Jun 17 2011, 10:19 AM
Lindsay Richards It is all about kids being kids and doing things t... Jun 17 2011, 08:29 AM
joez
This statement should end this thread. Children ... Jun 17 2011, 08:49 AM
JDRobar I personally don't have a problem with kids :)... Jun 18 2011, 07:11 PM
Galli
I personally don't have a problem with kids :... Jun 18 2011, 08:11 PM
MCRANE Galli, I thank you for the nice words. I just want... Jun 19 2011, 02:20 PM
JDRobar Some of us over 55 people are pretty snooty :angry... Jun 19 2011, 03:04 PM
MCRANE
Some of us over 55 people are pretty snooty :angr... Jun 21 2011, 12:01 AM
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Galli
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Galli
Also there is the point that some people will com... Sep 13 2012, 10:02 AM
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Denali ...
I understand the over 55 parks and respect tha... Dec 5 2012, 03:16 PM![]() ![]() |